10 Commonly Asked Questions About Divorce
  1. What Are The Grounds For Divorce?
  2. Can Either Spouse File For Divorce While Still Living Together?
  3. What Is A Separation Agreement And Is One Required In Order To Separate Or Obtain A Divorce?
  4. How Is Child Support Determined?
  5. What Is The Meaning Of Legal And Residential Custody?
  6. What Factors Are Considered In Awarding Custody?
  7. What Factors Are Considered In Awarding Use And Possession Of The Family Home?
  8. What Is Marital Property And How Does The Court Award A Monetary Award To One Spouse?
  9. What Factors Are Considered In Awarding Alimony To One Spouse?
  10. How Do I Find A Good Divorce Lawyer?

1 - What Are The Grounds For Divorce?

There are two types of divorce in Maryland – a limited divorce and an absolute divorce. A limited divorce is essentially a legal separation ordered by the Court. An absolute divorce “absolutely” severs the marriage ties so that the parties are free to remarry.

The grounds for a limited divorce are as follows:

  • Cruelty of treatment (of a spouse or spouse’s minor child);
  • Excessively vicious conduct (to a spouse or spouse’s minor child);
  • Desertion; and
  • Voluntary separation.

The grounds for an absolute divorce are as follows:

  • Cruelty of treatment (of a spouse or spouse’s minor child);
  • Excessively vicious conduct (to a spouse or spouse’s minor child);
  • Adultery;
  • Desertion (for twelve months);
  • Voluntary separation (for twelve months);
  • Two-year statutory separation;
  • Conviction of a felony or misdemeanor; and
  • Insanity.

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2 - Can Either Spouse File For Divorce While Still Living Together?

Only under certain circumstances. A spouse may file for an absolute divorce on the grounds of adultery, cruelty of treatment, excessively vicious conduct or constructive desertion (e.g. based on lack of marital relations in separate bedrooms) while still living together. A spouse may file for a limited divorce on the grounds of cruelty of treatment, excessively vicious conduct or constructive desertion while still living together. All other grounds for divorce require the spouses to live separate and apart before filing for divorce.

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3 - What Is A Separation Agreement And Is One Required In Order To Separate Or Obtain A Divorce?

A Separation Agreement is a contract negotiated by the parties, each with his or her own attorney, which addresses and resolves all of the issues related to the dissolution of the marriage. Although a Separation Agreement is recommended, it is not an absolute requisite to either separating or obtaining a divorce. A written agreement is strongly recommended since it may be used to corroborate the voluntariness of the separation, to settle the division of property, and to deal with custody, support and alimony issues.

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4 - How Is Child Support Determined?

Maryland has enacted mandatory Child Support Guidelines which the Court will apply in each case to determine the fair and reasonable amount of child support, unless use of the Guidelines would result in an unjust or inappropriate award of child support. Child support is based upon a mathematical formula that factors in each parent’s income, the number of children and the number of overnights per year that the child spends with each parent. If the non-custodial parent has more than 35% of the overnights with the child each year, then the Court will apply a “shared custody” child support formula to reduce that parent’s child support obligation to the custodial parent.

The Guidelines also factor in any work-related day care expenses, extraordinary medical expenses or other additional child-related expenses that the Court deems appropriate, such as private school tuition or transportation expenses. The total child support obligation is allocated between the parties in accordance with their respective incomes, subject to custody or shared custody issues.

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5 - What Is The Meaning Of Legal And Residential Custody?

Legal custody refers to which parent has the power and authority to make the decisions affecting welfare of the child, such as health, education or religion. Residential custody refers to where the child physically resides. When deciding both legal and residential custody, the Court may award one of the following custody arrangements:

  • Sole legal and residential custody;
  • Joint legal and residential custody; or
  • Joint legal custody and primary residential custody to one party.

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6 - What Factors Are Considered In Awarding Custody?

In deciding which parent will have custody of a child, the Court will assess the best interest of the child. This assessment depends entirely on the particular facts of each case. The Court will consider the total situation by taking into account the following factors as determined by the Court with the primary focus being the best interest of the child:

  • The fitness of the parents;
  • The character and reputation of the parties;
  • The desire of the natural parents and the content of any agreement between them;
  • The potential of maintaining natural family relations;
  • The child’s preference, when the child is of sufficient age and capacity to form a rational judgment;
  • Any material opportunities affecting the future life of the child;
  • The age, health and sex of the child;
  • The suitability of the residences of the parents and whether the non-custodial parent will have adequate opportunities for visitation;
  • How long the child has been separated from a natural parent who is seeking custody of the child; and
  • The effect of any prior voluntary abandonment or surrender of custody of the child.

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7 - What Factors Are Considered In Awarding Use And Possession Of The Family Home?

The Court has the authority to award use and possession of the family home and family use personal property to the custodial parent for up to three years from the date of divorce. In awarding use and possession of the family home and family use personal property, the Court must consider the following factors:

  • The best interest of any child;
  • The interest of each party in continuing to live in the home as a residence or using the home for the production of income; and
  • Any hardship imposed on the party whose interest in the family home or family use personal property would be infringed by a use and possession order.


In connection with a use and possession order, the Court may also order either one or both of the parties to pay all or part of any mortgage payments or rent, any indebtedness that is related to the property, the cost of maintenance, insurance, assessments, and taxes, or any similar expense in connection with the property.

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8 - What Is Marital Property And How Does The Court Award A Monetary Award To One Spouse?

“Marital property” refers to that property, however titled, which is acquired by one or both of the parties during the marriage. “Marital property” does not include property which is: a) acquired before the marriage; b) acquired by inheritance or gift from a third party; c) excluded by valid agreement; or d) directly traceable to any of these sources.

After the Court determines which property is marital property, it then determines the value of the marital property. After taking these steps, the Court may adjust the equities and rights of the parties with respect to the marital property by ordering a monetary award from one party to be paid to the other.

The Court determines the amount and method of payment of a monetary award by looking at the totality of the circumstances and after considering each of the following factors:

  • The contributions, monetary and non-monetary, of each party to the well being of the family;
  • The value of all property interests of each party;
  • The economic circumstances of each party at the time the award is to be made;
  • The circumstances that contributed to the estrangement of the parties;
  • The duration of the marriage;
  • The age of each party;
  • The physical and mental condition of each party;
  • How and when specific marital property or interest in the pension, retirement, profit sharing, or deferred compensation plan, was acquired, including the effort expended by each party in accumulating the marital property or the interest in the pension, retirement, profit sharing, or deferred compensation plan, or both;
  • The contribution by either party of non-marital funds to the acquisition of real property held by the parties as tenants by the entirety;
  • Any award of alimony and any award or other provision that the Court has made with respect to family use personal property or the family home; and
  • Any other factor that the Court considers necessary or appropriate to consider in order to arrive at a fair and equitable monetary award or transfer of an interest in the pension, retirement, profit sharing, or deferred compensation plan, or both.

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9 - What Factors Are Considered In Awarding Alimony To One Spouse?

Alimony is not automatically awarded. The law in Maryland provides that in making an award of alimony, the Court must consider the following:

  • The ability of the party seeking alimony to be wholly or partly self-supporting;
  • The time necessary for the party seeking alimony to gain sufficient education or training to enable that party to find suitable employment;
  • The standard of living that the parties established during their marriage;
  • The duration of the marriage;
  • The contributions, monetary and non-monetary, of each party to the well being of the family;
  • The circumstances that contributed to the estrangement of the parties;
  • The age of each party;
  • The physical and mental condition of each party;
  • The ability of the party from whom alimony is sought to meet that party’s needs while meeting the needs of the party seeking alimony;
  • Any agreement between the parties;
  • The financial needs and resources of each party, including: 1) all income and assets, including property that does not produce income, 2) any monetary award to one party, 3) the nature and amount of any financial obligations of each party; and 4) the right of each party to receive retirement benefits; and
  • Whether the award would cause a spouse from whom alimony is sought to become eligible for medical assistance earlier than would otherwise occur.
  • Due to age, illness, infirmity, or disability, the party seeking alimony cannot reasonably be expected to make substantial progress toward becoming self-supporting or, even after the party seeking alimony will have made as much progress toward becoming self-supporting as can reasonably be expected, the respective standards of living of the parties will be unconscionably disparate.
     

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10 - How Do I Find A Good Divorce Lawyer?

There are numerous resources available to assist in locating a good attorney. Ask for personal recommendations from friends or relatives who are separated or divorced. Many lawyers advertise in the telephone directory. The local bar association provides a Lawyer Referral Service. You should look for an attorney who devotes a large percentage of his or her practice to family law and who regularly attends Continuing Legal Education courses in the area of family law. It is important that you feel comfortable with your attorney and have confidence in his or her ability.

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