Frequently Asked Questions

Pre-Nuptial Agreements

• Do I Need A Pre-Nuptial Agreement?

  A Pre-Nuptial Agreement is a contract negotiated and signed by a couple prior to their marriage. It is recommended that a couple have a Pre-Nuptial Agreement in situations where one or both have children from prior marriages and/or one party has substantially more assets than the other.

  Pre-Nuptial Agreements usually address what happens in the event of a divorce (such as alimony, division of retirement benefits and other assets and liabilities), as well as what happens in the event of death (how the decedent’s estate will be divided, life insurance, and payment of certain expenses for the surviving spouse).

  When negotiating Pre-Nuptial Agreements, it is essential that a full and truthful disclosure of assets and liabilities be made by each party; that the Agreement be entered into voluntarily; and that each party have independent legal counsel during negotiation of the Agreement.

Divorce

• What Are Grounds For Divorce?

In Maryland, there are 8 grounds for an absolute divorce (to terminate the marriage): adultery; desertion for 12 continuous months; voluntary separation for 12 continuous months; two-year separation; conviction of a felony or misdemeanor with incarceration for at least 1 year under a sentence of 3 or more years; insanity, with the spouse institutionalized for at least 3 years and the insanity is incurable; cruelty of treatment; or excessively vicious conduct.

To be “separated”, spouses must live in separate residences. With limited exception, the separation is interrupted if spouses have sexual relations with one another, resume living together, or even spend one night together under the same roof, regardless of whether or not they sleep in separate bedrooms. The Maryland Court of Appeals in Ricketts v. Ricketts has carved out an exception to the separation requirement to allow for divorce on grounds of constructive desertion with cessation of marital relations when spouses reside under the same roof in separate bedrooms.

• Is My Divorce Case Uncontested?

Your divorce case is uncontested if you and your spouse agree to divorce and all issues related to the marriage have been resolved. A contested divorce is where the grounds for divorce and/or any issues related to the marriage are in dispute, such as child custody, child support, spousal support, and property disposition.

If you have a contested divorce, you may need to seek relief from the Court, either from a Judge or a Family Division Master. This process can be very complicated, lengthy and expensive.

If you and your spouse agree on the grounds for divorce and all issues incident to the dissolution of the marriage, it may be advisable to negotiate and enter into a Voluntary Separation and Property Settlement Agreement. Once all issues are settled, the divorce becomes uncontested and obtaining a final divorce can be expedited.

• What Is A “No Fault” Divorce?

A “no fault” divorce is where neither spouse is considered responsible for the breakup of the marriage.

Technically, Maryland does not have a no fault divorce. The closest thing to a no fault divorce in Maryland is when spouses are divorced on grounds of a two-year separation.

Under this ground, if you and your spouse have lived separate and apart in separate residences without interruption and without sexual relations for two years, you can obtain an absolute divorce.

It is not necessary to show that the separation was voluntary. Nor is it necessary to show that either spouse deserted the other or was otherwise at “fault” for the dissolution of the marriage.

• How Do I Prove Adultery?

To obtain a divorce on the grounds of adultery in Maryland, you must prove that your spouse had the “opportunity” and “disposition” to commit adultery. Proof of sexual intercourse is not required.

“Opportunity” may be shown by your spouse spending time alone with a member of the opposite sex in a residence or hotel. “Disposition” may be shown by some public display of affection or intimate correspondence.

There are 2 defenses to adultery which are not an absolute bar to granting the divorce: condonation (forgiveness) or recrimination (adultery by the claiming spouse).

Adultery is a misdemeanor crime in Maryland. Therefore, a spouse has the right to plead the 5th Amendment and refuse to answer questions about adultery. In such event, the Court may infer that the adultery occurred.

Unlike other grounds for divorce, adultery allows for an immediate divorce, without any minimum period of separation required.

• What Is A Separation Agreement?

A Separation Agreement is a permanent contract between spouses, generally negotiated with assistance of independent counsel, which resolves all issues related to the dissolution of the marriage.

Provisions of a Separation Agreement may include the date of separation, child custody, visitation, child support, alimony, college contributions, use and possession of the family home, disposition of the family home, division of assets and liabilities, health insurance, life insurance, waiver of inheritance rights, attorney’s fees and costs.

It is important to consider the tax consequences of a proposed Separation Agreement, such as the after-tax effect of alimony and child support, and to seek legal advice prior to signing a Separation Agreement.

• What Is A Limited Divorce?

A limited divorce is a divorce from bed and board. It grants spouses the right to live separate and apart from one another, although they remain as husband and wife and cannot remarry.

A limited divorce may be sought for religious purposes when spouses do not have grounds for an absolute divorce (which terminates the marriage). Filing for a limited divorce will allow the Court to decide custody, support, use and possession of the home and personal property, to resolve disputes regarding ownership of personal property or order the sale of jointly owned personal property.

However, under a limited divorce, the Court cannot equitably divide the parties’ marital property or order the sale of jointly owned real property, such as the family home.

Although spouses cannot remarry under a limited divorce, for tax purposes, spouses granted a limited divorce may file as single taxpayers.

• Can I File For Divorce While Living With My Spouse?

Under certain limited circumstances, you can file for divorce while still living with your spouse.

A spouse can file for an absolute divorce on grounds of adultery by the other spouse while still living together. A spouse can file for a limited or absolute divorce on grounds of abuse by the other spouse (known as “excessively vicious conduct” or “cruelty of treatment”) while still living together. Under Ricketts v. Ricketts, spouses can now file for a limited or absolute divorce based on constructive desertion (e.g., refusal of marital relations) while still living together under the same roof in separate bedrooms.

However, in Maryland, before parties are granted a divorce, the Court does not have jurisdiction to grant child custody, support or use and possession of the family home while the parties reside together. Therefore, if a spouse needs to obtain custody, support or use and possession relief before the divorce, the parties must live in separate residences.

• Can I Force My Spouse To Leave The Home?

If the home is jointly titled or leased, you cannot “force” your spouse to leave the home (e.g. by changing the locks and precluding access). Each spouse has an equal right to stay and live in a jointly owned or leased home.

Under circumstances of domestic violence, the Court can order one spouse to vacate the home for a period of time in order to protect the safety of the other spouse and/or child of the parties.

When a Court decides residential custody of a minor child, the Court can also award use and possession of the family home to the custodial parent. The other spouse is then required to vacate the home during the use and possession period.

At the time of divorce, the Court can either order the sale of the home, transfer the home to one spouse (as of October 1, 2006), or award the custodial parent use and possession of the home for up to 3 years. Upon termination of a use and possession order, the home will be sold or transferred.

• What Is A Pendente Lite Hearing?

“Pendente lite” is Latin for “pending litigation” and refers to temporary relief the Court can award to spouses while their divorce litigation is pending.

A pendente lite hearing is typically scheduled within 3-4 months of the filing of the initial Complaint. At the hearing, the Court can award temporary relief to either party, including visitation, child support, alimony, attorney’s fees, litigation costs, maintenance of health insurance and use and possession of the family home (if residential custody is not disputed).

In Montgomery County, a pendente lite hearing is heard before a Family Division Master in the Circuit Court, who makes recommendations to a Judge. Either party may file exceptions if they object or disagree with the recommendations. The exceptions are then ruled upon by a Judge.

Once a pendente lite order is issued by a Judge, it will stay in effect until the parties’ custody trial and/or divorce trial.

• Does Maryland Recognize Common Law Marriages?

Common-law marriages may occur in some states when individuals agree to reside together as husband and wife and publicly hold themselves out as husband and wife without a marriage ceremony and certificate.

Couples in a common-law marriage have the same rights as other married couples, including the right to divorce.

Maryland law requires a religious or civil ceremony to create a valid marriage. Couples cannot live together in Maryland to create a valid marriage.

However, if a common-law marriage is established in a foreign jurisdiction which accepts such marriages as valid, such as the District of Columbia, Maryland will recognize that marriage as a valid marriage.

For example, if a valid common-law marriage exists in the District of Columbia and the couple later resides in Maryland, the foreign common-law marriage will be recognized as a valid marriage under the laws of Maryland.

• How Can I Settle My Divorce?

Filing Requirements

• Where Can I File For Divorce?

You can file for divorce in Maryland if you or your spouse have resided in Maryland for at least one year prior to the filing of the Complaint for divorce or if the grounds for divorce occurred in Maryland.

For example, if adultery is your grounds for divorce and the adultery occurred in Maryland, neither you nor your spouse need to be a Maryland resident for one year prior to filing for divorce.

However, at least one spouse must be a “bona fide” resident of Maryland when the Complaint for divorce is filed. Thereafter, either spouse may change residences and still maintain the divorce action in Maryland.

Whether someone is a “bona fide” resident is determined by the person’s intent, best shown by where they live and vote.

Maryland divorce actions in Montgomery County are filed in the Circuit Court for Montgomery County, 50 Maryland Avenue, Rockville, Maryland 20850.

• Where Can I File For Custody?
Generally, a custody action should be filed in the “home state” of the child.



















The “home state” of a child is where the child has resided with a parent or guardian for at least 6 consecutive months immediately before filing the custody action.

For example, assume the child resided in Maryland with one parent for more than 6 months before the other parent moved the child to Virginia. The custody action may still be filed in Maryland as the child’s “home state” (where the child most recently resided for 6 consecutive months). After the child resides in Virginia for 6 consecutive months without a custody action filed in Maryland, Virginia would become the child’s “home state.”

The rationale for “home state” jurisdiction in custody cases is to prevent forum shopping and to allow the custody case to be heard where there are significant connections and evidence of the present and future care, protection and welfare of the child.

• Where Can I File For Support?
If both parties are Maryland residents, the Plaintiff (person seeking support) may file for child support or alimony in the county where the Defendant (intended payor of support) resides, carries on business, is employed or habitually engages in business.

























In addition, in a divorce action, the Plaintiff may file for support in the county where the Plaintiff resides or, in a custody action, the Plaintiff may file for support in the county where either parent or child resides.

If the Defendant is not a Maryland resident, the Plaintiff can seek support in Maryland if:

1) The Defendant is personally served with suit papers;

2) The Plaintiff resides in Maryland when suit is filed; and

3) Maryland was either the matrimonial domicile of the parties immediately before their separation or the obligation to pay support arose under the laws of Maryland or under an Agreement executed by one of the parties in Maryland.

Domestic Violence

• What Is A Protective Order?
A “Protective Order” is a form of relief available from the Court for victims of domestic violence.



















In Maryland, a person is eligible for a Protective Order if they: are the current or former spouse of the alleged abuser, have a child with the alleged abuser, had an intimate relationship and lived with the alleged abuser for 90 days within the last year or are related by blood or marriage to the alleged abuser.

To obtain a Protective Order, the victim must prove one of the following acts occurred: an act that causes serious bodily harm or places the victim in fear of imminent serious bodily harm, assault of any degree, rape or sexual offense or attempted rape or sexual offense, false imprisonment, child abuse, or stalking.

Under a Protective Order, the Judge may order: the alleged abuser to stop the abuse, stay away from the victim, children or other family members, stop contacting the victim, vacate the family home, pay emergency financial support, attend counseling and surrender firearms. The Judge may also award temporary child custody, visitation and use and possession of the family home and/or jointly owned car. Protective Orders may be issued for up to one year.

See the Divorce Handbook for more information about Protective Orders.

• What Is A Peace Order?
A “Peace Order” is a form of relief available from the Court when a person has problems with another individual, such as someone the person is dating, a neighbor or a stranger.



















If a person is eligible to file for a “Protective Order” against domestic violence, he or she is not eligible to file for a Peace Order.

In Maryland, a person eligible for a Peace Order must prove one of the following acts occurred within the last 30 days: an act that causes serious bodily harm, an act that places the person in fear of imminent bodily harm, assault in any degree, rape or sexual offense, false imprisonment, harassment, stalking, trespassing or malicious destruction of property. One must also show that the act is likely to happen again.

Under a Peace Order, the Judge may order an individual to refrain from threatening or committing an act, end all contact, stay away from the victim’s home, place of employment or school. The Judge may also order the parties to participate in joint or individual counseling and/or joint mediation. Peace Orders may be issued for up to 6 months.

• What Is Considered Stalking?
Maryland passed a revised stalking statute, effective October 1, 2003.



















Under the new law, “stalking” is defined as approaching or pursuing another where one knows or reasonably should have known the conduct would place another in reasonable fear of serious bodily harm, assault, rape or sexual offense or attempted rape or sexual offense, false imprisonment or death. Stalking is also conduct that will likely cause another to suffer the above offenses, regardless of what the alleged stalker knew or should have known.

Prior to the revised law, establishing the crime of stalking required proof that the alleged stalker had the specific intent to cause harm to another.

Violation of the stalking statute is now a felony, rather than a misdemeanor, punishable by fine and/or imprisonment, and can be used as grounds for a protective order or peace order.

• What Is Interspousal Immunity?
Interspousal immunity is a common law doctrine which prohibits spouses from suing each other.



















The Maryland Court of Appeals in Bozman v. Bozman joined the majority of states in abolishing interspousal immunity.

Now, spouses in Maryland may sue each other for any injuries they incur, such as injuries resulting from stalking or domestic violence.

Prior to the abolishment of interspousal immunity, spouses in Maryland could only sue each other in cases involving “outrageous” or “negligent” conduct. Therefore, injured spouses were barred from any recovery in cases where the conduct causing the injury was severe but not “outrageous” or “negligent.”

In Bozman, the Maryland Court of Appeals stated that “interspousal immunity is unsound in the circumstances of modern life…. It is a vestige of the past.”